Do you happen to remember Neo? Neo was the second “elusive one” to travel through these parts where I live. When I started writing about Neo, I first reminded you of Theo. Theo was a cat who was straying in my area in 2017. It took me six months to finally trap him. His name derives from his elusiveness – The Elusive One (Theo). Then a second “elusive one” showed up here in my countryside. This New Elusive One took the same kind of name – Neo. I had nearly lost my mind trying to get Theo for those long six months. Then Neo challenged me in an even greater fashion – his capture took nearly a year. He was first seen in February of 2021. I finally got him in December.
Neo was absolutely terrified at first. He STAYED in a covered litter box with a towel in the bottom and he did not come out except to devour all of the food and water in his cage overnight. As the weeks ticked by, things did not improve. Here is an excerpt from a post earlier this year:
When I got Neo in December I was overjoyed. He went into a cage and I started trying to learn about him. Unfortunately, I quickly realized that he was not going to come around easily. He was terrified. After about three weeks, I knew I was up against an entirely feral cat. This guy had obviously never had any experience with humans. At first, he would cower in the back of the covered litter box that I’d made into a hidey-hole for him. I would watch through a window as he would cautiously ease out and eat his food when he thought I was gone. He went from hiding from me to trying to scare me away by throwing a paw & claw out at my arm when I would reach in to scoop his box or put in food and water. When he’d been here for over a month, still nothing was changing. It was disappointing. Oh, how I have longed to love on this guy. But mostly, it was heart-wrenching because I knew how terribly afraid he must be. I told him that we have all the time in the world. And I explained to him that by getting him at the beginning of December, he had already missed two snows and three bouts of wind chill temperatures in the single digits. He was, however, apparently not impressed as he continued to cower and to lash out.
Well, Mr. Neo has made a complete about-face. I think I wrote a couple of times about how he was beginning to come around. He eventually decided that I was his friend and he started wanting attention. I have been able to pet him, even pick him up, for a while now. He does have a quite annoying habit of biting. Now just so you know, these are love bites. There is zero aggression in these bites. In fact, he seems quite pleased with himself when he manages to get one in. He slips up and bites the underneath side of my arm when I’m scooping his box or filling his dishes. He walks right beside me when I carry his bowl to the sink to fill it with water. He tries to rub on my legs as I walk (makes things quite interesting). But as soon as I stop walking (upon arrival at the sink), he bites me on the back of the leg. Every time he bites me he then looks right into my eyes with a proud and loving look on his face. I can tell that he thinks these bites must certainly be making me very happy.
Now to the first of two problems. Neo is very young. He is quite playful. And ALL of the Winnie’s Wish cats HATE him. Oh, the trials we’ve had here! The little stinker will NOT leave the other cats alone. You can’t blame him. He’s young and thinks that these other cats must surely want to play. And play rough he does! I’ve tried him with several cats and groups of cats here and they all end up sitting high on shelves and cat trees, watching him and trying to stay away from him. The Winnie’s Wishers are not young cats for the most part. They are quite content living their middle-aged to old-aged lives. The couple of younger ones here are happily living with older cats which makes introducing Neo into their group quite impossible. You know that I have converted dog runs into kitty condos. I finally recently moved Neo into his own condo and he quite liked it. He loved his large outdoor living space and I would find him out there very often.
But he started begging me to stay in the condo with him when I would be in there cleaning and giving him attention. And when I simply had to move on to other work, I would hear his toys being swatted around. My throat would close up as I realized he was just there in his kitty condo playing by himself. It was heartbreaking. I knew he needed more.
Now to the second of the two problems. You know my daughters are the co-managers of the local humane society. This is “kitten season” so they have been dealing with the onslaught of cats and kittens that come into the shelter this time of year. Now think about the number of animals that a no-kill shelter can take in - ONLY as many as they can adopt out. End of story. There is only so much room in a shelter. Tons of shelters and animal control facilities across this nation euthanize animals as they fill up so that they can continue to take in. But in a no-kill shelter there is only so much room and when the place fills up, that’s it – no more can come in. So no-kill shelters can’t take in “unadoptable” animals. They have to be able to eventually adopt out every animal that they take in. Occasionally, however, an unadoptable animal slips in because the staff can’t identify the problem until after the animal has been accepted. This is the case for semi-feral cats.
Back to Neo. On the morning that I was walking around with a lump in my throat listening to Neo play with his toys by himself, I suddenly thought of a possible solution. I texted Older Daughter – Good morning. Hey listen. You wouldn’t happen to have a young, semi-feral cat at the shelter who is never going to get adopted and that you need a place for, do you? Within a few moments, I got back an answer – YES!
So we texted back and forth. I explained about Neo and how I knew he was lonely and how none of the Wishers wanted anything to do with him. Older told me about Lyndon – a young male who had come in and then proceeded to be neither tame nor terribly nice to the other young cats in the room with him. Older Daughter and I wondered together if maybe Lyndon could move into Neo’s kitty condo with him. We decided it was worth a try.
I moved Lyndon into a two-shelf cage and set it up right across from the front of Neo’s enclosure.
After a couple of days, I started rolling the cage right up against the front of Neo’s condo. I was SUPER pleased when neither boy went into any hissing fits. I was also pleased that when I cleaned Lyndon’s cage he did not try to attack me. He definitely didn’t want me to reach towards him, but he did not act aggressively towards me. The day finally came when I was ready to try them together. I opened Neo’s area and rolled Lyndon’s cage into the opening. Then I opened Lyndon’s cage and he cautiously crept out. The boys ignored each other for the most part, but that was fine with me. They weren’t hissing or fighting or chasing. I told my daughters that the experiment had begun. We all kept our fingers crossed.
Well, I’m writing today to announce that we have Two Problems Solved. Neo now has a companion. He always wanted the other cats to interact with him and they were all VERY much annoyed by this. And Lyndon, who wasn’t going to be adopted from the shelter, now has a place to live out his life in comfort AND with a companion. The two have not scuffled a single time that I know of. They eat right next to each other. And when I come in first thing in the mornings, they are sitting side-by-side at the front of their kitty condo waiting to be fed.
Don’t you love it when things just work out?